“It’s all your fault!” - It goes without saying, in a relationship it’s never all anyone's fault. Pointing fingers and playing the blame game is not healthy.
“You’re crazy!” - Your partner shouldn’t make you feel like there is something wrong with you. If you start questioning your own sanity, maybe you are being gaslighted.
“You’re too sensitive!” - This is just another way of shaming you for reacting in a way that is uncomfortable for your partner.
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“I told you so!” - If your partner tells you this, you are likely going through a bad experience.
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“You can’t do anything right!” - Saying this is totally unacceptable. This sentence not only hurts you, but will also make you feel like a complete failure.
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“Don’t wear that...” - The only people who could tell you what to wear were your parents. But this was when you were not old enough to decide for yourself.
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“You make me want to slap you right now!” - The threat of physical violence should be taken seriously. It’s never okay to feel like your partner can use it. Ever.
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“If you loved me, you would…” - This is a highly manipulative thing to say. Most likely, your partner is trying to make you do something you don’t really want to do.
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“You complete me!” - If your partner tells you this, they are either being ultra romantic, or they may have some attachment issues to resolve.
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“I hate you!” - Hate is the opposite of love. This is usually said from a place of anger, but, still, it’s a powerful and hurtful thing to say to a loved one.