Reduce anxiety - Some people may approach small talk with anxiety. To curb your anxiety, stay rational and positive.
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Decide who you'd like to meet before you go - Take a look at who else will be there and plan to meet those who might share something in common with you.
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Read a lot - The more you read, the more trivia or facts you'll have for potential conversations. It can be online, in books, or in newspapers/magazines.
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Take responsibility for meeting others - Say hello first. If you always expect others to make the first move, you'll be disappointed.
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Don’t be the sidekick - Instead of shadowing someone you already know, branch out and meet people on your own.
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Really listen to others talk - Whether it’s work-related or not, carefully listen to the other person, and provide a thoughtful response.
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Be kind to yourself - If you feel like you botched a conversation, or wish you hadn't said something, take a few minutes to reflect. Then simply let it go.
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Be yourself - No one likes fake people. So, in the interest of being more outgoing, don't be someone you aren't.
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Share something honest -When you let your guard down, you're more likely to have more genuine conversations.
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Compliment and shift - Find something that you can genuinely compliment the other person on, then shift to a question so as to avoid any awkwardness.
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Be an introducer - If you are talking with someone and another guest looks a little uncomfortable, try to include them by inviting them into the conversation.
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Try to find common ground to make small talk about - Try to find something that you have in common with the person, as then your interest will be genuine.
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Share anecdotes - Don't hesitate to let your conversation partner know that you can relate to what he or she is telling you. You'll instantly create a connection.
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Get in the habit of making small talk - The habit of saying hello and listening is something you can develop a little every day.