Starting a family - Before you tie the knot, you should discuss this with your partner so you know where you both stand regarding children.
Religion -
Religion is not only important to decide how your wedding will be conducted, but it can actually shape your married life. It's very important to understand each other's beliefs.
Pets -
Owning a pet can be great, but it's also a big responsibility. How do you and your partner feel about it? It's better to establish this position sooner rather than later.
Prenuptial agreement -
Signing a prenup is sometimes necessary. It could become very important, and should definitely be discussed openly.
Your partner's fears -
It's important to connect with your partner on a deeper level before you get married. Share your fears, doubts, struggles, and regrets.
Plans for the future -
Having common long-term goals is important in any marriage. Of course, it's not always easy to plan ahead, but you both should be aiming in the same direction.
Doubts -
Do you feel anxious about getting married? It's normal. Discuss any hesitations that you might have. You don't want to end up having cold feet on your wedding day!
Where to live -
Where will you live as a married couple? Will you buy or rent? A house or an apartment? What is non-negotiable, and what are you flexible about?
Bad habits -
You might have tolerated these in the beginning of the relationship, but going forward, it's important to discuss any bad habits that might have an impact on the marriage.
Family medical history -
Your family medical history is important to know particularly if you're thinking about having children.